Stalking in Düsseldorf | Detectives Investigate

Have you ever had the feeling of being watched? Of course you have – everyone does now and then. Perhaps someone simply finds you attractive. But have you ever had the feeling of being watched frequently or even constantly? In that case, you may be dealing with a stalker.

Stalking can become an extreme burden for those affected. There are many triggers that turn people into stalkers: fear of loss, feelings of inferiority, jealousy and so on. From inconspicuous following to anonymous letters to personal confrontation, possibly even physical aggression, there are countless forms of stalking. If you are being pursued or even threatened by a stalker, contact the investigators of Kurtz Detective Agency Düsseldorf as quickly as possible: +49 211 9874 0021. We will support you with our extensive experience.

It often starts normally – two people enter a relationship and later separate. But one of them cannot let go.

They had met a little over two years ago. He was a department manager at an insurance company in Neuss, she a tax clerk at a local tax consultancy. At the beginning everything was normal: both went to work during the day, spent evenings and weekends together, had already taken two holidays together, and eight months ago they had moved in together. That was when the trouble began:

She clung to him – and how she clung! “Where are you going?”, “When will you be back?”, “Why can I not come with you?” After work, the drive home took about 20 minutes if there was no traffic. But if he was not home within 25 minutes at the latest, his phone rang non-stop. Where was he? Why was he late? He must be with another woman – she screamed all this down the phone. Even during staff meetings, the phone rang. When he did not answer, she would call the company’s switchboard to be put through, just to make sure he was really at the office. When he had a men’s night out with friends, she called every half-hour to ask when he would return. The mere sound of his phone ringing made his neck hair stand on end. Once he deliberately left the phone at home to avoid the calls. She took a day off from the tax office, drove to his insurance company and brought it to him. How embarrassing it was when she suddenly stood in front of him and scolded him like a child.

A desire for control often reveals itself during the relationship

About two weeks ago he discovered that she had been going through his phone, looking for unfamiliar numbers and text messages. She had probably been snooping for some time, but only now had he noticed. When confronted, she denied everything. Four days later he had a business meeting with a client and the client’s wife in a restaurant. During the evening – he had so far focused exclusively on his clients – he noticed a woman with her back turned who seemed to be watching him using a small handbag mirror. He went over and realised it was his girlfriend, disguised with a wig and glasses, spying on him. That was the final straw. That same evening, after returning to the flat they shared, he packed the essentials into two large suitcases and temporarily moved in with a friend and his family.

Stalkers are often unable to cope with rejection

From that moment on, he was never sure whether his ex-girlfriend was lurking around the next corner. He had a new mobile number, but it was pointless: she called the insurance company countless times each day and asked to be put through to him. After work, she waited beside his car in the company car park and followed him home. When he threatened to obtain a court restraint order against her, she responded by scrawling the word “bastard” across his windscreen the next morning. From then on, anonymous threatening or defamatory letters arrived at the insurance company daily.

It does not have to come to this. If you are confronted with someone who is following you, harassing you or threatening you, engage the private investigators of Kurtz Investigations Düsseldorf: +49 211 9874 0021. We conduct investigations tailored to your case – thorough, discreet and court-admissible.