Infidelity Involving Prostitutes

Signs of repeated and ongoing infidelity in a long-term partnership or marriage almost always appear sooner or later, giving the betrayed partner initial clues or suspicions. It becomes more difficult, however, when the partner has “only” had a one-time affair or seeks variety in a brothel. Such encounters are usually not a sustained relationship that noticeably alters daily life, but rather a one-off event occurring at shorter or longer intervals. Moreover, the person engaging in these services often does not consider it cheating, but rather an “appetiser” or “inspiration” for their sex life with their partner at home. As a result, guilt is often absent, and no unusual behaviour is displayed.

The same applies to bachelor parties: reactions to possible indiscretions are often absent here as well. A final night of indulgence before marriage is perceived by many as perfectly normal. The partner who is being cheated on, however, may only become suspicious after discovering a ticket for a “sauna club” in the cheater’s pocket or accidentally finding compromising photos.

If you are unsure whether your partner is engaging in sexual relationships outside your partnership or marriage and want certainty, contact the private detectives at Kurtz Detective Agency Düsseldorf at +49 211 9874 0021 or, if preferred, by email at kontakt@kurtz-detektei-duesseldorf.de. Our detectives conduct investigations discreetly and thoroughly. Arrange a non-binding consultation today.

Hidden Homo- and/or Transsexuality

During investigations, our Düsseldorf detectives occasionally discover that a partner suspected of infidelity is actually trans- or homosexual. We have observed married men with children meeting partners at motorway service areas or visiting relevant gay clubs. It becomes especially delicate when the target is transsexual: they enter as a male target, but exit as a woman or as a man unrecognisable from the original person. Recognising that one of these women was previously the male target requires significant alertness from our Düsseldorf investigators.

In such cases, our detectives’ findings often lead to profound changes in the lives of both the client and the target. A sexual orientation hidden for years can finally be disclosed to the partner; the secrecy ends. But how should the supposedly betrayed partner deal with this? Anyone who is not sexist cannot blame their partner for a changed or newly discovered sexual orientation. Nonetheless, continuing the previous life – now with all cards on the table – may not be a viable option for many. In traditional or conservative environments, it is not uncommon for the social circle to turn away from the homo- or transsexual person. In such dilemmas, our Düsseldorf detectives can only refer clients to professional psychological support. For the actual evidence gathering, however, we are your IHK-certified experts in Düsseldorf: +49 211 9874 0021.